“No me parezco a nadie”

(“I don’t look like anyone else”)

– Pedro Infante

This exhibit is dedicated to my grandfather, Abel Lopez Negrete, who turned 84 this year. He is my only living grandparent and the only great-grandparent to my son, Daniel. Growing up in Mexico, my memories of him are filled with music. Our house was always full of his favorite songs by Pedro Infante, Jorge Negrete, Javier Solis, and many others. My grandmother also used to tell stories suggesting that we might have a blood connection to Jorge Negrete. As she told it, my great, great-grandmother was a maid in Negrete’s mansion, and the rest we may never know. While I have my doubts about this story, it makes me appreciate the power of storytelling.

Recently, these memories have been more present for me since Daniel has developed a love for music. We try to expose him to a diversity of styles, including the traditional rancheras that my grandfather likes. 

The title of this exhibit, “No me parezco a nadie” (“I don’t look like anyone else”), is borrowed from a Pedro Infante song titled “Yo soy quien soy” (“I am who I am”). The unapologetic but also humorous lyrics describe a person who gets along better with animals than with humans – something that many of us can relate to at times. The statement “no me parezco a nadie” also resonates deeply with me as an immigrant. I look different, I come from a different place, and I am who I am. This phrase holds power and comfort for me.

As I researched ranchero singers like José Alfredo Jiménez, Lola Beltrán, and Juan Gabriel, I learned about their struggles and dedication to their music. In creating this exhibit, I found connections between their commitment and my own. Their passion and the poetry in their songs speak to me deeply.

The exhibit features work from three different themes, including my miniature art and storytelling book. Through these pieces, I honor my grandfather's legacy, the music that connects generations, and the impact of these cherished memories.